To the family:I am sorry for your loss. Please know that God cares and loves you. Although you are grieving now, we are promised that soon there will be a time when there will be no more sickness, pain, and death. The Bible guarantees this at John 5:28, 29 there it says "Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out." Whatever God promises he will do. This is shown to us at Isaiah 55:11there it says, "So my word that goes out of my mouth will be. It will not return to me without results, But it will certainly accomplish whatever is my delight, and it will have sure success in what I send it to do." So please, pray to God, give him all your pain and he will sustain you. Deepest Sympathy.