Victor Obado Agor's Obituary
Life of Victor Obado Agor born December 23, 1920, in Sarrat, Ilocos Norte, Philippines, passed away on October 10, 2025, at the age of 104. Victor was the third oldest child in a family that consisted of nine brothers. His father Antonio Balisado Agor and Mother Claudia Ver Obado moved the entire family to Kekaha, Kauai when he was age 2. Throughout his life, Victor was known for his love for family, tireless work ethic, and generosity. He leaves behind a legacy that includes strategic planning, sound investments, and financial stability. He was known to be humble, independent, hardworking, and productive. He was a devoted son, brother, uncle, husband, father, and granddad.
Early life:
Victor started working as a field laborer as a youngster at a sugar plantation alongside other kids till he was a teenager. He then became a helper at a local car repair shop where his passion for cars began. He valued the opportunity to earn better pay as a result of being hired to be a truck and tractor mechanic for the McBride Sugar Company. He spent his early years working on family and friends cars so that they were always available to go to work and on shopping errands. He eventually developed a taste for dressing well, going holo holo and dancing to meet girls. After moving to Oahu in 1946, he began working as an Automotive Mechanic at the Maintenance Division, Directorate of Industrial Operations, United States Army Support Command, Hawaii (Schofield Barracks). Victor enlisted in to the United States Marine Corps in July 1953 and served as an Aircraft Electronics Technician till July 1955. He then joined the United States Marine Corps Reserve as an Aircraft Radar Repairer and then as a Wireman till August 1961. He returned to federal civil service at Schofield Barracks as a Heavy Mobile Equipment Repair Inspector and then promoted to challenging positions stationed in Japan, South Korea, and Vietnam as a Senior Combat Vehicle Maintenance and Inspection Specialist for a span of 7 years. He was ultimately promoted to serve in the Quality Assurance Branch at Schofield Barracks and honored with multiple accommodations that included recognition for exceptional performance as an Industrial Equipment Repair Inspector Foreman. He was proud of the experiences, opportunities and work that he did. He retired in January 1988 after 41 years of federal civil service.
Family life:
Victor was previously married to Elizabeth Alfiche however, she passed away shortly after the birth of their first child Audrey Elizabeth in May 1958. He remarried in December 1958 to Luzviminda Agpaoa while visiting Sarrat, Ilocos Norte, Philippines. Victor fathered three more children, Allan Anthony, Arlene Rose, and Paradise Chanel. He was a loving and devoted father that provided his family with a home and the support and care they needed to thrive. He and Luzviminda became a popular dance couple and actively socialized at family parties and as members of the Sarratenios of Hawaii, the Aloha International Dance Group, and the Pan-Pacific Ballroom Dance Society. They participated in dance exhibitions and became active board members. Victor was elected as president of the Pan-Pacific Ballroom Dance Club from 1982 thru 1984. He also enjoyed traveling to distance lands and was an avid boxing enthusiast who boisterously cheered for his favorites while ringside and at home while watching TV.
Fatherhood:
Victor was the guiding force in the lives of his children. He taught them the importance of being present for family and preparing for the future. His wisdom and sense of humor were a constant source of comfort and strength. He was the kids' and grandkids’ biggest supporter in everything they did, never missing a softball game, judo practice, piano recital, gymnastics, football practice, and diving competitions throughout the years. Becoming a granddad was a joy that Victor embraced with enthusiasm. He was a central figure in their lives to include the first 8 months of his first grandchild’s life while her dad was away on active duty in the U.S. Navy. His role as a granddad allowed him to relive the joy of parenting with the added benefit of spoiling Chelaine, Jeremy, and Victoria a little more. His legacy lives on through the memories he created with them.
Son, Brother, & Uncle:
As the third eldest son, Victor was often assigned responsibility for his immediate family’s welfare. His brothers regularly sought his guidance and support and was a source of strength and stability. He was always ready to lend a helping hand and offer words of encouragement. He shared special bonds with brothers Danny, Roy, Ted, and Gus and cherished their laughter-filled memories. Victor generously welcomed his brother in-laws and their families into his home in Alewa Heights as they immigrated from the Philippines so that they could get established and eventually become naturalized citizens. He also hosted various nephews and nieces as they attended college and post graduate studies knowing that it would benefit their families at home.
His Legacy:
The memory and spirit of Victor lives on in the countless lives he touched. He was a man who prioritized family above all else and his love will continue to resonate through the stories we tell, the lessons we pass on, and the memories we cherish. His legacy is one of generosity, financial security, and unwavering commitment to those he loved.
He is survived by his wife, Luzviminda Agpaoa, children, Audrey Elizabeth, Allan Anthony, Arlene Rose (Lance Arnold Eliazar), Paradise Chanel, and grandchildren, Chelaine Bryn, JeremyLance, and Victoria Patrice (Gavan Lee). Victor’s enthusiasm, charisma, and spirit will forever remain in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.
Victor’s Favorite Poem:
To Those I Loved and Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go.
I have so many things to see and do.
You must not tie yourself to me with tears,
Be happy that we had so many years.
I gave you love, you can only guess
how much you gave me in happiness.
I thank you for the love you each have shown,
but now it's time I traveled on alone.
So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must,
then let your grief be comforted by trust
It's only for a while that we must part,
so bless the memories within your heart.
I won't be far away for life goes on,
so if you need me, call and I will come.
Though you can't see or touch me,
I'll be near and if you listen with your heart,
you'll hear all of my love around you soft and clear.
And then, when you must come this way alone,
I'll greet you with a smile and say,
"Aloha, Welcome Home."
Funeral service will be held on Friday, December 5, 2025, at the Mililani Mortuary Downtown Chapel, Honolulu, Hawaii. Visitation begins at 9:30 am, service at 10:30 am. Burial to follow at 1:00 pm at the National Memorial Cemetery of the Pacific (Punchbowl).
Attire - Aloha/Casual
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