About Us
The Mililani Difference
Since 1960, we have been honored to deliver healing experiences to the Oahu community. We exist to serve the unique needs of every family. Learn our story. Lean on us. And let our expertise lead you through the best experience possible.
Our pledge
We’re here to give you care and comfort as we help guide you through the planning journey.
Our Story
We've learned a lot about caring for families over the years. We realize that we aren't just caring for a loved one, but the entire family. People come to us during their most difficult times, and we respond with kindness, understanding and expertise. Our goal is to make everyone feel at home as we work with them to create a memorable service in honor of a beautiful life.
Our Legacy of Care
For over 60 years, Mililani Memorial Park & Mortuary has been a part of Oʻahu’s story — serving families with compassion, dignity, and aloha. Join us on a journey through our history to see how we’ve grown, adapted, and remained rooted in our commitment to care.
A Vision Begins
In May 1960, Mililani Memorial Park was incorporated with a vision to create a serene and dignified final resting place for Oʻahu families. What began as open land would soon become one of the island’s most trusted memorial spaces.
Our Mission
To offer comprehensive, affordable services all in one place — with care rooted in community.
Growth with Purpose
Zoned for 143 acres and with 63 acres currently developed, the memorial park was thoughtfully expanded to offer a peaceful and enduring place for generations to come.
Expanding Into Honolulu
In 1976, Mililani Memorial expanded its reach by acquiring the Downtown Chapel in Honolulu, bringing trusted care to families in the city.
A State-of-the-Art Facility
In January 1995, we opened one of Hawaiʻi’s largest and most advanced funeral care facilities — setting a new standard for service, comfort, and innovation.
Everything in One Place
Today, Mililani Memorial is proud to own and operate its funeral home, crematorium, and cemetery. This all-in-one approach provides families with simplicity, convenience, and peace of mind.
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Our team
We're members of the local community who have many years of experience caring for families from all backgrounds and all walks of life. Families know they can count on us to provide them the comfort they need when they need it most.
Stephanie Kaneko
Funeral Home Manager
Stacey Dilwith
Care Center Manager
Tyson Arakaki
Assistant Cemetery Superintendent
Selena Kalamau
Family Service Supervisor
Luke Fiel
Community Development Supervisor
Devon Nekoba
Community Development Advisor
Shana Hosaka
Family Service Advisor
Natasha Chang
Family Service Advisor
AhSen Ross-Kalani
Community Development Advisor
Mila Yee
Family Service Advisor
Theo Lessary-Kaialau
Family Service Advisor
Marinda Puckett
Family Service Advisor
Cathy Barlan
Family Service Advisor
Jennifer Romero
Family Service Advisor
Kristi Nakasone
Family Service Advisor
Shane Lolotai
Community Development Advisor
Max Reyes
Community Development Advisor
Jenyce Murai
Family Service Advisor
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Chace Ward
Managing Partner of Operations
Chace began his career in the funeral industry on his 18th birthday as a cemetery caretaker, a role that laid the foundation for a lifelong commitment to compassionate service.
He later served as the superintendent of Mountain View Memorial Park in Tacoma, Washington, where he led operations with care and integrity.
In 2024, Chace relocated to Hawaii to take on the role of Managing Partner of Operations at Maui Memorial Park, continuing his dedication to supporting families with dignity and respect.
Outside of work, Chace enjoys spending time in nature- whether hiking trails or relaxing on the beach with his significant other, Ashley, and their five children, ages 19 to 8. His oldest son, Aidan, is proudly following in his father's footsteps as a cemetery caretaker at Mountain View Memorial Park.
Tim Lenz
Managing Partner, Family Service
Tim brings a wealth of experience to the Mililani team, joining us from Washington State where he served as a Managing Partner of Family Service at a large cemetery and funeral home for three years. Prior to that, Tim dedicated seven years to leading sales teams for numerous funeral homes and cemeteries in the greater Houston area.
Tim received a Bachelor of Arts, with a major in theology and minor in psychology from Texas Lutheran University in 2006. Tim then served as Director of Youth and Family Ministry for eight years for a congregation in Houston. After meeting his wife, Valerie, Tim and she volunteered in Southeast Asia for almost a year before returning back to Houston and then beginning a career in the cemetery and funeral industry.
Tim and his wife, Valerie have three daughters, Willa, Elle, and Nomi. Tim and his family enjoy all the outdoors have to offer, such has camping, hiking, going to the beach, and anything involving activities around the water. This is his family’s first time to reside on the island and look forward to becoming part of this welcoming community.
One of Tim’s passions is serving families in times of need, whether it be after losing a loved one, or in assisting them to discover the benefits of planning ahead in order to help protect their loved ones.
Tim knows that no single approach is the right one for everyone and believes in providing in a range of options to include each individual’s desires, traditions, and beliefs.
He has had the pleasure of helping families plan meaningful tributes for themselves and their loved ones, including custom memorial services, traditional funeral services, discovering a peaceful final resting place in a cemetery, and everything in between. Tim prides himself on serving each family as if they were his own, with great attention to detail and care.
Teal Lopez Kumai
Family Service Supervisor
Born and raised in Kahaluʻu on Oʻahu, Teal Lopez Kumai has more than 15 years of experience in the cemetery and funeral profession. She began at the Byodo-In Temple Gift Shop before advancing into administration, memorial and headstone services, and family services.
She later served as Sales Manager for Maui Memorial Park and Nakamura Mortuary, followed by supporting families through Hawaiʻi Catholic Cemeteries. Today, she serves as a Family Service Supervisor at Mililani Memorial Park & Mortuary, continuing her passion for guiding families with compassion and care.
Teal is married to her husband Bu, and together they are blessed with three children. Their faith in Christ is at the heart of their family, and they are honored to serve their church and community together.
Nichole Dau
Community Development Advisor
Born and raised in Waipahu, Hawaiʻi, Nichole Dau is passionate about strengthening communities and helping individuals and families access the resources and support they need to thrive. As a Community Development Advisor, she works closely with residents, local organizations, and community partners to foster meaningful connections and create opportunities that enhance quality of life.
Nichole earned her degree from the University of Hawaiʻi, where she developed a strong foundation in community engagement, relationship building, and service-oriented leadership. Her local roots provide her with a deep understanding of the unique needs, values, and cultural traditions of Hawaiʻi's communities.
Known for her compassionate approach and commitment to service, Nichole is dedicated to empowering others through education, advocacy, and collaborative problem-solving. She takes pride in building trusted relationships and helping create positive, lasting impacts throughout the communities she serves.
Outside of her professional role, Nichole remains actively engaged in supporting initiatives that promote community well-being, cultural preservation, and opportunities for future generations.
This dedication to service and connection continues to guide her mission of making a meaningful difference in the lives of individuals, families, and the broader Hawaiʻi community.
We illuminate paths to peace with personalized ceremonies and memorial tributes that honor your loved one.
What Families Are Saying
Loving the new remodel of the makai chapel and the two new developed areas. It gives more options than ever before.
Author: Jimin Song rated with 5 stars
Thank you to Meli, Carl, Teri and Hitoshi for their caring service at downtown Mililani Mortuary. They took their time to answer questions and I did not feel rushed like some other places I’ve checked for my family.
Author: Chris Jj rated with 5 stars
Wonderful experience, everyone is so kind and helpful. They all had such great and comforting words
Author: Theo C. rated with 5 stars
Ah Sen, a community development advisor, providing me great information and answered all my questions in providing for my families needs. It was a pleasant and satisfying experience working with Ah Sen.
Author: Clay rated with 5 stars
Our family received compassionate and professional service from Meli Jordan, Funeral Arranger at the downtown location of Mililani Mortuary. During this difficult time, she was always accessible to support us and answer all our questions. She always showed us respect and caring. I would highly recommend her during a time of mourning.
Author: John Wong rated with 5 stars
Charlie Valentine was wonderful! The receptionist was friendly and professional! Great service!
Author: Sheilia Stodder rated with 5 stars
Melinda help me all the way through with whatever was necessary to complete. She got everything done! I also worked with Teal who signed us up for our own funeral plans since I really liked what they provided. Teal knew a lot and fun to talk to.
Author: Iris rated with 5 stars
Melinda and Mou were very compassionate in our time of need. Would recommend Mililani Mortuary to anyone that needs funeral services for their family members
Author: John Nakai rated with 5 stars
My funeral director Pansy was beyond phenomenal and cared for our family as if it was her own. Her kindness and compassion made this very difficult process so much better.
Author: J Coy rated with 5 stars
Thank you, Javier, for your kindness and professionalism during such a difficult time. We are truly grateful for your support and would highly recomend him and the mortuary to anyone in need of compassionate care. We truely appreciate the time and care you took to answer our questions and help us through every step.
Author: Rebecca I. rated with 5 stars
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